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Sex Help Books - Instructional Books that may Help You

I am a terrible reader, generally I hate reading. Give me the movie over the book any day. But when it came to sex and relationships I was desperate so I started to read. There is no better book than the New Testament in the Bible to understand love which is the cornerstone of sex. Assuming you have already cracked open the Bible let me share some other books which may be helpful.

As far as relationships there is no better book than The 5 love languages by Gary Chapman. Understanding your spouse and how they feel loved will open intimacy in an amazing way. Sex is intimacy and without intimacy you cannot have a truly connected sexual relationship. Learning how your spouse feels and sees various things in your relationship will give you a greater understanding of how to treat them. This will in turn lead to a better relationship. Some sex books specifically that may be fun and helpful are 101 Nights of Great Sex by Laura Corn which is great for those of you who need ideas of how to be playful in the bedroom or Cosmo’s Steamy Sex Games by Cosmopolitan. My wife also enjoyed Kosher Sex by Shmuley Boteach and The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands by Dr. Laura Schlesinger and said they were very informative (I did not read these).

For the very basics The Gift of Sex by Penner was also a great resource. Never feel shy or stop yourself from exploring sexuality in your relationship. God gave you a spouse to love, enjoy and to have fun, passionate, playful and wild sex so crack those books and start studying!